Memories!

When I’m completely conscious ( rational ) vs emotional!!!

Memories – just the data of past happenings which are stored to be retrieved at some trigger point to give you happiness or burn your brains.

I do not sugar coat this article with the Memories which gives you happiness… Remember this.

Let’s jump into the darkest phase — note the below symptoms of this trauma which will burn your brains inside out… when the logic is dead and you start thinking how could that happen instead of “why” and you spot yourself in a raw and intense state making yourself suffer emotionally, just realise this is the point you want to scream and make your point but there will be nothing you could do because it’s a memory after all!

“Really? Macha, are you serious that memories burn your brains ?”, the rational side of me doubtfully enquired again.

With all the observation, experience and absorption I could only say, YES THEY do! But, there’s one thing that really took away my complete attention was, there is nothing called a good or bad memory. Surprised?? — for a while, just think you’re sensible enough to notice that as a fact. You’d definitely believe that it’s all the current mood which segregates the memories into good, bad, great worst etc.,

Obviously, the Memories which burn your brains are the ones you’ve never wanted or expected to happen! Don’t you really think that? If you say no, this article is not to judge anyone’s dumbness!

If the memories are about living beings(humans, dogs etc.,)… Then places, objects, things, names, actions, words etc., will become projections of them. And whenever you have an access to feel and think about the aforementioned variables, MEMORIES strike. In fact, those memories can be cherished PROVIDED you’re able to accept the fact… If you fail to accept what had happened, it’s a haunting memory and you’ll find your way critical to let go….. trust me it’s almost impossible to detach yourself from the pain you experience from the things which have happened against what you’ve expected in the memory to happen. Sounds like aak is paak, paak is aak, re-read it’s true! It’s only our reaction that we can control and be at peace when we think of those memories – nothing else!!!!

Memories don’t fade away, they make us as a person in a way for the progress. Do not neglect memories or take them for granted. Feel them and think about them though they hurt you because they’ll definitely influence our future decisions and feelings.

LIFE GOES ON… ANYTHING/ANYONE BECOMES A MEMORY!